There are many types of dating websites on the internet, but the most popular ones are adult dating sites where there are no restrictions on nudity, sexuality or fantasies. While such dating sites are liberating for the open-minded individuals, the question remains whether they offer a serious way of finding love and romance.
One of the big issues about a regular dating website such as match.com or eharmony.com is the fact that they censor nudity and sexually open expressions of their members. In the case of eharmony.com, the focus is on personality compatibilities. While personality and characters are important aspects of a successful relationship, what is even more important is sexual attraction and sexual compatibility.
As a relationship expert, I have worked with many of my clients whose relationships have failed because their sex life has dwindled over time. How many times have you heard people saying that the best way to end your sex life is to get married? Sex or the lack thereof is one of the main causes of relationship breakups, cheating or extramarital affairs.
Sexual compatibility is determined by many different factors. First impressions do matter a lot, but the basis of sexual attraction goes far beyond that first face to face meeting. While you may be attracted to someone because you think they are beautiful, the attraction will likely dull over time unless there is sexual compatibility. Sexual compatibility is determined by the sexual fantasies shared by two people, much like hobbies, personality or interests.
So if sexual compatibility is so important, why aren’t dating websites placing more important on this subject when matching up likely mates? The reason may be as simple as online censorship, where anything containing nudity is quickly classified into the x-rated or adult category. Fortunately, an increasing number of dating websites are placing more focus on sexuality and sensuality issues. These dating sites offer the best of both worlds, allowing their members to explore physical attraction, personality compatibilities while exploring fantasies, fetishes and sexual commonality.